Family


14
May 09

Separating From the World

After watching American Idol last night, I am ashamed to admit that it has taken me this long to finally ban the show from my house. It is the embodiment of worldliness and is inconsistent with a Biblical worldview. For some time now I have had reservations about allowing my family to watch the show, but they liked it and I am cautious not to be a “tyrant” of legalism in the name of holiness.

However, the line must be drawn here. Everything from the songs that are chosen, outfits of the contestants (and judges), remarks of the judges, and particularly the guest performers go against what I know that Bible to teach about believers coming out and being separate from the world. But really, could I expect anything else? I mean, American Idol is the world’s party and for them to behave any other way would be impossible.

It is not a family show and it is not really a singing competition anymore either. As I watched it with my family last night, I said to my oldest daughter, “Abby, this is a picture of the broad way that Jesus talked about in Matthew 7.” Many will go this way. I do not want my family to be on the broad way. We belong to the narrow, the hard, the tight way — the way that Jesus said few will find.

American Idol does not represent that “way.” Other changes are no doubt soon to come.


20
Apr 09

A Proud Dad Moment

pleiadesA couple of weeks ago, Abby and I were driving home from school and she asked when we were going to join the local astronomy club. She said she wanted to join quick so she could tell the people there that the Bible proves that “the Bang” is fake.

I smiled and said, “What verses are you going to show them to prove it?” She then pointed to a little gray NIV Bible we keep in the car and opened it up to Job 9:9:

He is the Maker of the Bear and Orion, the Pleiades and the constellations of the south.

She has of course seen all these three of these constellations in the night sky and made the connection that so many of us have trouble making — that God actually made the stuff, not some random Bang 15 billion years ago. We may say that we believe God created all this, but to approach it with child-like faith — that is something most of us “grown-ups” have trouble with.

For a brief moment in the car that day, I was humbled by an 8 year old little girl and realized that what her parents are preaching to her is getting through and slowly but surely molding her heart for Christ. Definitely a proud day moment.


18
Sep 08

Raising Godly Kids in an Ungodly World

There can be no question that we live in a very “anti-God/Christian/Christ” world, and those of us with children face a monumental task: raising Godly kids in an ungodly world. How do we keep our kids from the evil influence of our society without being over-protective and sheltering them to the point that they are practically helpless when they eventually do have to venture out into the world?

That is the issue that is tough to balance. I have a 7 and 1 year old and I am constantly looking for the right balance with my oldest. Attitudes and habits all have to be in check with godliness. Keeping the focus upward is critical with kids teaching them that they are living for eternity and not for the “now.”

If my children grow up and fall away from Christ, then I will have failed miserably as their Father. If only more Fathers would see their responsibility like this.


23
Jun 08

BeatMaster H.

I’ve started making some loops and beats with Sony Acid. Some are original, some are just mixes and remixes of the loops included with the program. Have a listen to my beats!!

http://www.acidplanet.com/artist.asp?songs=676022&T=1173


11
Jun 08

Little Explorers

The best part about being a teacher is getting to spend summers with your own children. Ours has just started and we’re off to a busy one — doing nothing but chasing the little one around the house as you’ll see in this video: